hmmp.. temen itu bagus apa menyesatkan ya??
mm.. uda lama w ga nulis blog w ini.. hohoho..
sekarang w lagi di kostan.. gara2 pas tanggal 2 ada acara..
akhirnya besok inagurasi.. saat yg di tunggu2 binusian 2014.. hha
tapi sekarang w lagi ga mau cerita tentang inagurasi besok karna w ga tau apa2 hha..
oke.. saya masih bingung sampai sekarang..
sebenernya apa sih yang di maksud dengan teman?
susah sih di jelasinnya..
kalo di jelasin mungkin lebih panjang dari tembok cina (lebay mode on)
banyak yang bilang kaya gini “haduh w ga bisa hidup tanpa teman2 di sekitar w”
ada yang bilang kita butuh teman karna kita manusia sosial bukan individu..
lalu saya berfikir apakah teman itu sangat penting dalam hidup saya..
lalu setelah di pikir2 saya mendapatkan beberapa jawaban yg mungkin saya rasa kita semua pernah berfikir seperti ini..
– bagi saya teman itu penting..
mengapa saya sempat berfikir seperti itu?
karna kalo kita punya masalah kita jarang cerita ke orang tua atau om tante apa lagi ke guru..
yang kita ingat saat kita ada masalah yang ingin di bagi pasti kita ingat sahabat atau teman2 kita..
– teman itu mewarnai hari kita
tanpa teman kehidupan kita ga lebih dari tembok kosong yang kaku..
tidak bisa jalan2..
sunyi serasa ga ada kehidupan di dalamnya.. hidup kita terlihat suram.. saat kita berjalan misalnya kita ke mall dan saat itu yang kita lihat adalah segerombolan manusia sedang tertawa bersama membagi masalah mereka 1 sama lain..
jarang skali kita temukan sseorang ke mall sendirian..
dan dengan hadirnya teman maka kita mempunyai banyak cerita yang bisa kita bagikan ke orang lain.
dan dengan adanya teman kita mempunyai kenangan yang saat kita ingat kembali bisa membuat kita tersenyum sendiri.. (bukan gila loh)
banyak sekali hal yang menurut saya pribadi teman itu adalah buku diary ke 2 dalam hidup saya..
tapi sadarkah kalian.. saat kalian terpaku akan pertemanan kalian ada banyak hal yang kalian kurang sadari..
ini hanya anggapan saya semata.. dan saya yakin tidak semua orang setuju dengan saya..
mmm.. kalo menurut saya
-kadang teman membuat kita bahagia tapi kadang membuat kita tidak bisa maju
karna saat kita berteman pasti pernah ada yg bilang “ah kalo lo ga ikut w ga ikut dah”
dan kita sendiri pasti ga enak nolaknya.. ya mau ga mau kita ikutin kata2 dia..
– ga semua teman mau kita sukses
nahh ini nih yang paling bahaya kalo menurut saya..
banyak loh orang yang nagku temen tapi menusuk dari belakang..
jadi harus hati2 sama yang 1 ini..
-teman kadang menyesatkan
hahaha.. ini sih banyak kejadiannya..
misalnya saat kita lagi serius trus dia datang sambil maen game..
atau waktu kita mau santai dia ajak jalan melulu
selain pemborosan juga membuang waktu yang tidak terlalu berguna
harusnya kita bisa membatasi dann membagi waktu antara kehidupan individu kita dan sosial kiat
dan 1 hal yang sangat saya yakini adalah teman tidak bisa membuat kita sukses..
karna pasti dia tidak mau kita lebih sukses dari dia..
dah yang menjadi pegangan saya adalah diri saya sendiri..
karna saya bisa hancur atau bisa sukses itu adalah tergantung dari pada diri saya sendiri..
berteman boleh2 saja tapi harus bisa membedakan mana teman yang sesungguhnya
kalian tanya pada diri kalian sendiri dan kalian akan menemukan tidak selamanya teman itu menjadi hal yang sangat berarti..
pasti kalian pernah merasakan musuhan dgn teman kalian..
dan menurut saya lebih baik menjadikan keluarga sebagai teman baik saya..
karna tanpa keluarga saya saya bukanlah apa2..
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